Sunday Sofa Series

Since When Was Effort a Red Flag? Dating in 2025

Sarah Loftus Season 3 Episode 4

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Modern dating tells us not to care 'too much' or get 'too invested' - wait to reply don't double text, play it cool. But since when was effort a bad thing? In this episode I share my thoughts on games, ghosting, and why genuine effort is the ultimate green flag